Ten Stage Tuesdays @ The Stages Academy

The Ten Stages Middlesbrough is every Tuesday 12-3pm.We run a rolling course of the Ten Stages we know this for ourselves because this is what we have become conditioned to have. We constantly don’t want to get into this too much.We learn to practice avoidant behaviours in collusion with our parents. And by escaping our innermost feelings, we create an inner void which is filled with either addictions or dissociations.


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Title: Stagers Community is everything.
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Stagers Community is everything. If you want to see a preview of our future, look at who you are hanging out with. This isn’t some moral...
Stagers Community is everything.

If you want to see a preview of our future, look at who you are hanging out with.

This isn’t some moral statement about your peer group, it’s more of a vibrational or elevational statement.

You see, we live in our literal World a world of our construction. That means that we become what we think and what we think is greatly determined by who we spend the most time with.

Do you spend your time with people who are constantly trashing your dreams? If so, then after time, you begin to believe their doubt and their fear; not because their doubt and fear are true, but because we are creatures of habit and our subconscious mind begins to absorb what we hear, especially the feedback from people we love and spend a lot of time with. And if you start to believe their doubt, then soon you will begin to take action from that belief in doubt and BAM – that belief in doubt manifests into reality. Not because it’s true, but because the belief became your dominant thought pattern and that thought pattern influenced your actions and your actions produced the outcome.

The outcome of our lives begins within us not a self help group.

If we water our dreams with doubt, then we think doubtful thoughts, take doubtful action and our lives become a living testament to and proof of our belief. Then, what many people do is take this “proof” and use it to further justify their initial belief. But you see, what they’re missing this whole time is the fact that their initial thoughts of doubt are what created the outcome. They unknowingly participated in their own demise.

But, this can be prevented by hanging with the proper community of people. Let us spend time with people who uplift us, who encourage us towards our recovery and who challenge our thought patterns. Let us not surround ourselves with people who always agree with us, but rather people who support our growth by challenging our beliefs and helping us break through to new mental recovery ground so that our lives may be enriched as a by-product.

Look around. Who are you spending time with? And more importantly, who are you believing? If you have a recovery in your world, do you believe people who are living their recovery and thus know the TRUTH about what’s possible, or do you take advice from people who aren’t living their recovery and thus will tell you it’s not possible?

Who you spend time with and who you believe are major factors in determine whether you are successful in your recovery or not. Our aim should be to spend time with people who are practicing compassion, who believe in us, who challenge us to go to the next level and who inspire us. Life is far too short to hang with people who are always negative and who want you to stay bitter and pissed off like them. It takes a lot of humility to admit when we’re wrong and to grow past our limiting beliefs. Let’s surround ourselves with people who support our growth, not necessarily the way we want, but most certainly the way we need.

Who are you spending your time with in your recovery?

Gain the positive messages of THE TEN STAGES.

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