The unhealed, who remain unconscious of childhood betrayals, must idealise their parents. To them, the parents can do no wrong. For that reason they act out their denied rage on others. Related artic…
Stagers who have not healed their wounds of childhood have a propensity for violence
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Stagers who have not healed their wounds of childhood have a propensity for violence—and live looking for a fight. From bickering with a partner to self-destructive behaviour to squabbles at work to…
We need to make contact with ourselves, our child within.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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We need to make contact with ourselves, our child within. We must walk in our own nurturance, delight in the pleasure of our own company, and court our own cherished child—the child within that most…
The basement of our childhood we fear to enter holds the treasure we seek.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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The basement of our childhood we fear to enter holds the treasure we seek. Fear of the unknown is our greatest fear. Many of us would enter a tiger's lair before we would enter a dark basement. While…
At each significant stage, the impulse to grow induces a crisis
Author: Fraser Trevor
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At each significant stage, the impulse to grow induces a crisis to pry Stagers from our blind obedience to conventional stagnation and to change our loyalty. Yet some Stagers block life’s attempts t…
As a Recovery Stager there comes a time when we are strong enough, when critical mass is reached.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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As a Recovery Stager there comes a time when we are strong enough, when critical mass is reached. We rally our forces and choose the life and the recovery that teems within us. Do or die, we must b…
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Author: Fraser Trevor
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Best way for us to heal our unresolved childhood traumas
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Best way for us to heal our unresolved childhood traumas is to do the ten stage course work — and fast. The best way to optimise our mind is to focus our energies inward by avoiding engaging in proje…