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Let our recovery guide our path and light our way

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Title: Let our recovery guide our path and light our way
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Sometimes we need to take to regroup, reflect, recreate. When we take the time to understand what we are here to do and follow our guidanc...

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Sometimes we need to take to regroup, reflect, recreate. When we take the time to understand what we are here to do and follow our guidance we will be presented with right people, places and opportunities that are in alignment for us. There is no roadmap to get you there. We learn to move through brick walls, survive the crashes and how to surf the waves. Our recoveries are here to be lived. Let our recovery guide our path and light our way</span><br />
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Now is not the time to let those who are living their addiction nightmare convince you that your recovery in the ten stages aren't true.

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Now is not the time to let those who are living their addiction nightmare convince you that your recovery in the ten stages aren't true.
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:

Now is not the time to let those who are living their addiction nightmare convince you that your recovery in the ten stages aren't t...

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In the second stage where parts of us lose the contest with ourselves and the fellowships we evolve into real suffering.

Fraser Trevor

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Title: In the second stage where parts of us lose the contest with ourselves and the fellowships we evolve into real suffering.
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In the second stage where parts of us lose the contest with ourselves and the fellowships we evolve into real suffering. This is a stage...

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />In the second stage where parts of us lose the contest with ourselves and the fellowships we evolve into real suffering. This is a stage of depression, failure, misery, and inertia. Here we wallow in seemingly purposeless pain. The silver lining around our cloud of parental idealisation has been stripped away, but the cloud remains intact. We still wish to be rescued by our parents and their replicated stand-ins, but we lack the requisite pain tolerance to be able to acknowledge the impossibility of this. Here we live in tortured ambivalence, and we spend out hours and days trying to get others to love us in the way our parents never could. Part of us wishes to devolve back into the seeming pleasure of grandiosity, but the healthier part recalls how cruelly that route already failed us.<br /><br />Those parts of us with the capacity to face our terrors enter into grieving. This is the stage of purposeful struggling. Here we unearth the truth of our past, which allows the eruption of the stinking cesspool of our buried traumas. Here we witness the problems lurking behind idealisation of the parents and we work to disassemble their ancestral lies. Our honest confidence leads us into the face of the hurricane, because our child within and its allies tell us that blue skies lie on the other side. Here we are humble, here we confront the truth of the worst of our parents, either in interaction with them or through whatever means will best help us integrate the truth, and through this our journey rages forward.<br /><br /><br />With each demon we conquer we take a further step into recovery. This is the stage of emotional integration, psychic balance, and inner peace. Here lie the deepest goals of our child within. All want to know truth, and the enlightened person achieves it – in all parts of himself that arrive in the final stage. Here we grow able to distinguish light from shadow and water from mirage. Here we nurture the evolution of our primitive sides instead of expressing them destructively. Here we devote the best of ourselves to healing. Here we no longer traumatise others in the very patterns in which we were traumatised, but instead replicate the best of ourselves – and generate beauty in the world around us. Here, having healed our wounds, we share freely of our gifts, because now our gifts are at last accessible.</span><br />
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In the second stage where parts of us lose the contest with ourselves and the fellowships we evolve into real suffering.

In the second stage where parts of us lose the contest with ourselves and the fellowships we evolve into real suffering. This is a stage...

The Ten Stage Course helps people to develop autonomous strength

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The Ten Stage Course to emotional development helps people to develop autonomous strength which is seen as having a healthy ability to be ...

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The Ten Stage Course to emotional development helps people to develop autonomous strength which is seen as having a healthy ability to be introspective and to ask oneself the questions: Who am I? What do I value, believe and want?</span>

The Ten Stage Course helps people to develop autonomous strength

The Ten Stage Course to emotional development helps people to develop autonomous strength which is seen as having a healthy ability to be ...

At the beginning of the stages’s healing journey we seek to map out our journey

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Title: At the beginning of the stages’s healing journey we seek to map out our journey
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At the beginning of the stages’s healing journey we seek to map out our journey at first we revert to our traditional contest distractio...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">At the beginning of the stages’s healing journey we seek to map out our journey at first we revert to our traditional contest distraction. In this part of our recovery argument, attempted acceptance, dissociated unhappiness, and seeking approval by parents, partners and friends of our crazy making behaviour becomes the norm. The parts of us that we feel are winning our contested part of our recovery stop our journey to recovery before it has even begun escaping into the grandiosity of spirituality, various religions and new personal romantic adventures.</span><div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;">
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We have a hard time letting go of our suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, we prefer suffering that is familiar.

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